Yesterday, after work i went and had drinks and dinner with my new friend Janessa, who also has an MBA degree. I met her at the wedding me and Ty went to last Saturday, she is mad cool and REAL. Refreshing to meet real people isn’t it? We had apple martinis..yummy!!!!. They are so smooth, delicious, and get you there without feeling sick or anything!

Marriage….Yep, me and Ty discussed it. First off, im not the type of person who pressures people into marriage, either you do or you don’t and forcing someone or pressuring someone could have a negative effect down the road. Pressuring, sorry to say it sounds pathetic because as i say either they do or they don’t want to, and if not your probably with the wrong person. Me and Ty talked about it and this time thoroughly. I think it had to do with us coming from a nice ass wedding & reception. But we talked about rings and such, Ty said if we get divorced he’s taking my ring and turning it into earrings for him lmao!. SMH, i told him first you have to take it off my ass. He talked about preparing for it and the timelines for everything, i gotta tell ya, this was a deep convo.

Well since Ty is having a party on my bday, i will have my party there in the v.i.p section with friends and coworkers and a free liquor at club Fusion, which is in Manhattan if i am correct. I suck at knowing what is where in NY. Right now i am waiting on Ty to come back so we can go and drink some liquor and eat dinner. Talk to yall laterz

On way to gym, i love my new gym…although it is 69 a month per member, its closer and i love it. Big pool, many machines, i guess this is what they call the big boy gym if your from NY. Working out has been easier on me lately, especially since im off the b.c. No more water wizzeight lol. Gotta get that stomach in shape and keep it tight. The muffin top is not a go.

Recently someone brought more info to my attention about NUGGET lol, im not going into tha drama anymore.

Wow, i honestly forgot about this blog, been so caught up in “life”. Lets see, after our anniversary, we discussed a few things and me and my bff Essence figured it out. That I have a great boyfriend. I won’t go into specifics because there is just some stuff i should keep off a blog lol, but i really know i got a true soldier, confidant, best friend, rida, and man. Next week, we are going to a wedding and we went shopping last week for me a dress. Man…this was funny. I was in nordstrom’s and Ty got me like 3 dresses to go try on. I come out, why this fool in the ladies dressing room in the lobby area sitting down waiting lmao. He gets up, i do a “turn around thea” lol like 3 times, he tugs here and adjust there… and say i like it!, then a saleswoman comes out and say “awww you look pretty” i say but you work here lol, she goes “nah i would tell you honey” lol. This other saleswoman brings me like 4 dresses, now from the looks of them i hit Ty from in the actual dressing room on my blackberry messenger and ask “did you pre-approve these” dresses. He says “nah lemme see” i come out he shouts “NAH that makes you look 40 yrs old” lmaooooooooooooooooooo, cant front the dresses were ugly as hell, except this BCBG i tried on. A white woman said “you never bring your man shopping!” i said hey, “he is honest and i love that, he won’t have me walking out the house lookin like a gatdam fool”. lmao, He is a fashion guy and honestly i dress for things i know he will like, im not trying to impress no other man but him, besides he has great taste and is fun to shop with. He had the saleswomen searching for stuff in my size. The saleswomen gave up as they found out he is very picky. So we went on our way, but found a dress

Well today is our official 1 year anniversary of when we got serious. I was a year since I’ve known him this past December but, this is when we got hot and heavy :whew:. So much going on guys, sometime this month we are going to a wedding so we are going dress shopping for me today, June 29th I’m turning 26. Wow. In July, we go back to Chicago for my girl Tenneka’s baby shower :awwwww mama: but Ty will be with shawn my bro. In august we are going to MA to six flags and in November we are going to Dominican Republic. Yay! I love takin trips with Ty, we NEVER fight or argue. We talk our shit out. Which is a relief!

Recently Ty and his parters had a Memorial Day event and ya girl was up in VIP twisted!!! lol. I had fun though especially watching him doing what he does. We didn’t home until 4am. I got hot and was sweating..the whole club was actually because it was rammed packed, the line outside the door was down the block. I felt so proud of my baby! When we first got there (before the crowd) i was sitting while he went and spoke to a few people but people started coming and as im waiting on him..a drunk fool next to decided that he had so much liquor that he should talk to me lol, Ty came grabbed my hand and took my ass to V.I.P lmao..then came the bottles of grey goose and me since i workout alot I dont drink..well one glass hit me..the 2nd one i was done. Im a punk lmao they was laughin at my expression. I know one thing..i peed like 10 times that night lmao. Ok TMI..but i did. I think the next one is July 4th hehe.